Posh Classy Mom

a Lifestyle blog by Sheree

This is 30+5

“Keep reaching higher until you get to your goal” ~ A very special post dedicated to my mom and a celebration of me. 

Sheree-poshclassymom-shein-red-dress-6Earlier in July, I quietly welcomed my 35th birthday, no frills, no big hurrah, only a celebration with my most treasured and loved ones.  To be quite honest, leading up to it I actually feared turning 35, it means that I have officially moved up to the next age bracket (yes referencing SATC s4 ep.1).  No matter how we try to tell ourselves that 30 is the new 20, our biological functions does not think so otherwise.  We have to put in a little more effort to keep fit, to stay active, to fight the urge to turn on TV for the kids and hide in the kitchen with a glass of wine after a tough day at work (am I right fellow mommas?).

Sheree-poshclassymom-shein-red-dress-1Sheree-poshclassymom-shein-red-dress-4Speaking of work, I also felt especially vulnerable this year because earlier in the year I made the decision to temporarily put my career on hold and stay home to focus on spending time and taking care of my two precious little ones.  It is the first time that I am not working since I have graduated college.  I did the career mom thing after I had PA and it was fine because we had a full time nanny taking care of him.  It was tough not to be with him, but I feel like when I get home, he is the center of my world, the focus of all my attentions.  However, now with Miss K in the picture, I couldn’t just spend time with one over the other and I feel like I’m missing out on the biggest and most important job in my life, a mother.

Sheree-poshclassymom-shein-red-dress-3I started this little blog hoping to store the moments captured as a family, but it became something more.  It became my outlet for creativity, it became a communication tool for conversations with other women and moms who are trying to balance work and life, it became my drive to push myself and show my kids that even as a SAHM, I can still stay current, and be fabulous and not dwindling away living in yoga pants and sweat shirts everyday.  Both PA and Miss K inspires me to be a better person, teaches me to be a better mom and I want to make them proud to have my as their mom.

Sheree-poshclassymom-shein-red-dress-2I have said it before that I have come to term with my body that although at 35, it may not be what it used to be as in my twenties, I have proudly given birth naturally to two of the most lovable, kind, happy and amazing children.  I am proud that this body went through all the trouble and pain of breastfeeding…twice to see that my kids grew heathy and strong.  I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever about my decision to stay home because the time I get to spend with them cannot be bought with any money earned.

Sheree-poshclassymom-shein-red-dress-7Originally I wanted to post this on my birthday, however after giving it some thoughts, I decided to save the post until today, on my mother’s birthday as she gave birth to me at the fabulous age to 35.  She has been my best friend, my rock and my inspiration and I hope that PA and Miss K can see me as such and proudly shouts “That’s my Mommy”.  Happy Birthday Mommy, you have always been so fabulous and you still are.  Thank you for all of your unconditional love and I love you so so much!!

~ xo Sheree

Dress : : SheIn Spaghetti Strap Cross Back Maxi Dress (c/o)
Bracelet : : Coordinates Collection Open Air (10mm in gold and rose gold personalized to display PA and Miss K’s birth coordinates and date)

photo: Annie Bang

Comments

  2. What a truly heartwarming post, I think you look fabulous at 35 and I’ve no doubt your children are very proud of you – though obviously for more than your looks alone! 🙂 These images are beautiful by the way, the bold red colour stands out so well against the beachy background.

    Gabrielle | A Glass Of Ice
    x

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  3. What a great post to celebrate your mother! I just had my 40th birthday this year, and just like you, I celebrated it quietly with family! I am not a person who cares about what age I am! Inside, I still feel like I’m in my late 20’s, so I am not worried about my age!!!

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    • You’re so right, Sheree! And Yay to the best paid job in the world: Mommy! I also really enjoy conversations with other mommies as they give me kind of support. Every woman who gives birth should be proud of her and if she is looking as hot as you even more, darling! All the breastfeeding, pain and sleepless nights are definitely worth it. I’ve worked so much before the baby’s arrival that I actually started to “live” when he was finally there. I wish I would look as fresh, elegant and self confident in 4 years like you do now, Sheree. Your family can be proud of you, you’re wonderful!
      Happy belated birthday to your mother, dear!! <3

      xoxo Ira
      JOURNAL OF STYLE / BLOGLOVIN

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  12. Beautiful post! You look beautiful in this red dress. I actually think you still look like you are in your 20’s so don’t be hard on yourself because you look great. It’s awesome that you are staying home with your kids. It is hard work to raise kids and the time with them goes by way to fast. Such a great idea to write your blog. I hope you always keep it going.

    Kathy
    http://www.glamsimplified.com

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  19. Happy belated birthday beautiful! And happy birthday to your mom, I hope you’re spending a wonderful day together. You look amazing, so in love with your dress and the pics. And no worries: I’m 44 and I actually don’t feel it, you just have to do what you love. Love your way, Kirsten xx

    http://www.thelifbissue.com

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  21. I love your pictures, and the dress you’re wearing in it!!! I bet your mom was right there with you on that mountain!!! I’m sure she is very proud of you!!!

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  25. Happy birthday to you and your mom! I really enjoyed reading your post. It is so good to know you more. You look so fab in the red dress and no way anybody can tell you are 35. Maybe 25 the most.

    Take care and keep in touch!
    Please stop by every Wednesday for Color and Grace Fashion link up! 🙂

    Grace
    http://colorandgrace.com

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  27. Let me just say.. YOU LOOK AMAZING! I’m sorry I used caps but I wanted you to know how beautiful and amazing you look. You’re right, when you’re older your body is definitely letting you know you are, but that doesn’t mean we stop being as amazing as we are. We just become more amazing. I’ve also loved visiting this blog and I can’t wait to see where your creativity will take us next. Happy birthday.

    Kia / House of KTS
    http://www.houseofkts.com

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  30. this post is so wonderful and perfectly timed on your mom’s birthday! Your words echoed many of my same sentiments as I am getting older too and also left my career to take care of my little ones. I agree that it was a scary move as I always pictured myself as a career woman and it’s somewhat disorienting not to have that part of my identity anymore. the blog does help in giving me an outlet and i love that it’s an inspiring place for others and me as well. you look absolutely stunning in these pics!

    xoxo,
    kileen
    cute & little

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    • Thank you Kileen for such a heartfelt comment. I really appreciate all the encouragements from fellow mamma bloggers. Being a full time mom is not as easy as people think and seeing other women going through and feeling the same is so helpful. xo Sheree

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  31. You are seriously EPIC! What a beautiful post, red is perfect for turning 35. Proud of you for putting your children before your career as I’m sure that was a really hard decision. You are so positive, even though I know how hard it is to remain that way all of the time but you are doing a fantastic job of it. Happy belated and your children are BLESSED to you have as their mother.

    XOXO
    http://www.kellmenow.com

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  41. Sheree, this is just beautiful, such a stunning shoot! I love the dress, the colour is wonderful, and you certainly more than do it justice! Funnily enough this post has done 2 things for me – firstly, in all honesty, I had really felt like I’d lost my blogging mojo, especially with doing style shoots, but you have absolutely revitalized me and made me want to dress up and be playful and more than anything, write and [post about it! Secondly, again back to my blogging mojo – I related to every word. I was a career girl with luxury fashion brands ever since leaving university, had a nanny for the children until I realized that I was spending less than 2 hours a week with them, and the nanny was basically doing my job! Blogging and yoga are my spaces to be me, and I must not let one of them go. Thanks so much for linking up to #AllAboutYou this morning, and kickstarting my mojo again! You really never know when someone will rewaken your fire! You go girl, 35 rocks, and from where I stand, 40 is still stylish, sexy and confident!

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    • Thank you Zaz for your wonderful heartfelt comment. I really appreciated your resonating with my thoughts on staying at home as well as finding blogging mojo. I hope that you find yours soon and see more posts from you. I absolutely loved how you just decided to pursue your dream to become a certified yoga instructor and it is just so inspiring. Have a fabulous weekend. xo Sheree

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  47. I wish you an adventurous 35! And you do NOT look 35, I wish I could look as young as you do when I reach 35.

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  48. What a lovely post! I struggled in many ways as well when I decided to stay home with my three girls but what could be more important than raising my children. It’s been more than rewarding but just like you, I also have a need for a creative outlet, hence the blog. Beautiful pictures! You look amazing in this red dress.

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  50. This is a beautiful post! Thanks for sharing. I don’t yet have kids, but I anticipate thinking and feeling many of the same things. Being a woman presents many unique challenges and it sounds like you are facing them all with beauty and grace. I love this red dress on you!

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

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  51. You look absolutely stunning, Sheree! Your red dress against the spectacular backdrop is simply exquisite.

    I remember going through the very same things you describe when I was your age. The good news is, life only gets better with each passing day – richer and more rewarding – especially when you have a family to share it with. Stay present and enjoy the moments. Happy belated birthday!

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  52. I am so in LOVE with this outfit! I will feature this look of yours on my Friday’s post. I run different themes everyday and that day is called They Got It Right! Thank you very much for sharing and keep in touch!
    Please stop by every Wednesday for Color and Grace Fashion link up! 🙂

    Grace
    http://colorandgrace.com 

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  54. Beautiful…you are beautiful. The photography is stunning. Having said that, I applaud you most for serving and loving your children first. No one can replace you as their mother. I’m glad you have this blog to fulfill a creativity void in your life. My blog is the same for me. Thank you for linking up with Whitney, Casey & Carrie. Hope you have a lovely week!

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  55. What a beautiful shoot and a beautiful idea! I absolutely love your ethos and the idea behind your images. Every day deserves to be celebrated, especially birthdays, regardless of the number.

    You look sensational. 🙂 x

    #AllAboutYou

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  56. Happy belated birthday, and what a beautiful post! You look gorgeous, and I loved reading your thoughts on aging and on parenting. I’m a working mom of a two-year-old boy, and it’s such a struggle to find the balance of working/being a mom. Right now that’s the only option I have, but I don’t think it’s easy for any mom, whether she works or stays home, to find that balance. I think as moms we always want to do better and be better. Anyway, I loved this post!

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  74. Just beautiful Sheree! You look amazing and wow I wouldn’t have guessed your were 35 and that your mom had you at 35 herself (like my mom when she had me) but wow what a great post! I am glad you decided to stay home with your kids (I am doing the same) as it does have it’s moments but rewarding moments as well. I love the blogging community for the same reasons you do, creativity and communication. I also love that there were no negative comments in this post for your decision and reasons to stay home with the kiddos as most posts like these have mom fights haha! You inspire many, keep at it!
    Thank you for linking up to “Bloggers Who Have Inspired Me” link up.
    Rachel xo

    Please join me for Bloggers Who Have Inspired Me Link up now LIVE here

    Garay Treasures

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  76. Wow! Your photos are stunning! I completely understand how you feel regarding wanting to stay at home with your children. When my daughter started school we had just come to the end of a very stressful 18 months of my husband and I living apart, long commutes etc as we were in the process of relocating and changing jobs. I realised that both of us working full time and doing shifts wasn’t the life we wanted (or possible due to childcare requirements) so I took a career break, and after six months quit my job to go freelance. It was definitely the right decision and, although money was really tight until I started working again, for the first time since maternity leave I didn’t feel constantly guilty and anxious. Kids grow up so quickly, time is precious. Freedom is more important to me than money.

    Emma xxx
    http://www.style-splash.com

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